Wow, I feel like the world's biggest idiot of a man. Lol! Not wanting to throw myself out there (I want to remain anonymous) but I was starting to question if she was who she says she was. It's the way she just talks down to everyone in her circle if they do the simplest of things and acts like we are all scum. For ages I was wondering if it was my own unconscious bias but I'm not sure now. I'm neurodivergent so I'm a rubbish judge of character.
I'm so sorry for your experiences with her. I feel like a fool for allowing her in.