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Brian Joel Kemp: Misogynist, Gaslighter, and Delusional Bully


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 On the evening of Sunday, September 29, 2024, after all but two MLB teams ended their regular seasons, I decided to go on Instagram and check out if Bullyville had anything new on Carissa Shaw. I looked and I saw a thread where Carissa's ex, Brian Joel Kemp, makes a public apology of some sorts to Dr. James McGibney, but it's clear that his apology is such bullsh*t. How do I know that? Because he spent a lot of time verbally attacking my friends in various replies.

First off, we see this reply to one of my friends, Miley, who called out the immense lack of sincerity in Brian's apology. Brian (as "ronin_swordz") lashed out with hideous and disrespectful comments, making excuses, and all sorts of deflection. Look at what he's saying. Calling Miley "judgmental," throwing a pity party for himself, and using the whole "You don't know me!" excuse. Brian is pathetic.

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After I chimed in and told Brian to leave Miley alone, Brian asked my friend "Who are you?" He's a clown. 

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In this one, Brian falsely accuses Miley of "coming at him," when it was the other way around--he came at her. He mentions that he had a reason why he gave Carissa his passcode, and then repeated his "you came at me" lie to Miley, which is followed by his statement, "Typical White woman move." So Brian's trying heavily imply that Miley is some racist as a response to being confronted with facts. What he's hoping for is someone jumps in with a flat out accusation. It's a classic case of race baiting, and it makes those of us who actually have experienced the worst acts of racism look absolutely bad. All so he can run along with it and say he never said she was racist. And also, he does that "Who are you?" sh*t to me now.

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Afterwards, Brian then turned his demented attention towards me. And he hurled that same "You came at me" false accusation to me. All I did was stand up against Brian's stupid sh*t. That's literally all I did.

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Brian's nasty attitude is later hurled towards a person known as "creatorluther69," and...well, you know what? I'm not going to literally repeat what was said, especially the last part of Brian's stupid comment. It turns my stomach too much; the comment is that hideous. He can't handle when someone else is right (and he's wrong). He certainly can't handle being stood up to. He can dish it, but not take it.

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So I responded to Brian's "Who are you?" by saying that I'm a guy who respects women, unlike him. His response, "If your significant other asks to see your phone, and you have nothing to hide, you do it." No you don't. You don't just hand your phone or anything personal to your significant other just because they ask for it. There's personal stuff that is for our eyes and our eyes only. We have to have some form of privacy. Basically, Brian just admitted that he's a simp and an idiot. Not only that, but he's also admitting he is a "control freak" with a very controlling personality. Another example of this is look at some screenshots above where he acts as if he speaks for everyone. After all, look what that got him. Also, according to Brian, "if something happened to you and first responders needed to unlock your phone, then your other half should know the code." That's his excuse? Has this character never heard of facial recognition?!

 

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And here's Brian coming at "AmberMera007," doing so by lying about accusing Miley of being a racist. Yet he follows this with references to plantation owners, and he falsely claimed that "AmberMera007" was wrong after being told that he gave Carissa his password. "It has nothing to do with passwords," he says. Yes it does. Passwords and passcodes are the same thing. How does he not know that? He actually came at "AmberMera007" twice, and while it's customary to give a response for a response for back and forth conversation, "AmberMera007" only responded that one time. After that short response, Brian came at her again with his baseless rant and attack.

Just look at Brian's rant. He is using a lot of diversionary tactics and overplaying it on the victim act, and he's really laying it on really thick with the race baiting. I mean, look at this! So many references to plantation owners and slavery? What the f**k is he pulling with these references?!

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What followed was Brian smearing and slandering us in his stories, beginning with this story where he again falsely accuses Miley of "coming after him." It was the other way around; he came at us. He takes only one part of the entire comment thread conversation and shows it. He twists the truth to how he wants others to see it. Notice how he won't show the whole conversation? It's because if he did, he'd make it obvious he is guilty of attacking first. But he'll just continue to play the victim because that's what he does.

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Next up, Brian went after me and claimed I thought that it was OK to hide stuff from one's significant other, and falsely said that Miley had that same sentiment. Brian's lying and delusional. All we told him was that sharing passcodes like that isn't normal, but he's twisting it around to fit his bullsh*t story. Oh boy. According to Brian, it's wrong for anyone to not comply when someone they're with asks to search their stuff. He's basically saying someone should consent to a search on demand and shames us for not being okay with that. That type of behavior is a very controlling and manipulative tactic, and it's a huge warning sign that someone is an abuser.

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There was a third story that I tried to capture that was more hideous than the other two, but I couldn't get the screenshot. Though, I am happy with the reason why:  it was reported and removed. On September 30, 2024, Miley called out Brian's actions in a blog, which goes into detail about all of the warning signs that Brian is an abuser. Trust me, the signs are absolutely out there for all of the world to see:

 

 

As for myself, I called out Brian's actions in a video I posted on Tuesday, October 1, 2024:

 

 

 

 

 

 

It doesn't end there. Sadly, Brian's insanity continued even after this. First off, here are some shots of Brian's apology (well, what Brian's trying to pass as an apology), as well as the archive links. It does look like, to me, that Brian's laying it on really thick; maybe trying to be a bit on the sycophantic side when it comes to his so-called apology:

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Here's the thing, though. Brian's apology is so insincere. The proof was already shown above, but here's more. Look at what he's had to say about Carissa in his posts. One damning post has Brian saying, "Just remember you tore me down as much as I did you." That right there is an admission that Brian had been controlling and even abusive to Carissa Shaw. As bad as Carissa Shaw is, it does raise many questions about the validity of what Brian is saying. Also another post has Brian wanting retribution. I would think he'd want justice, not retribution. He does seem to subtext Carissa Shaw a lot.

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Yeah, so Brian posted some damning comments while ranting about Carissa. But this one is the kicker. Brian calls himself fighting against racism, yet look at this. This was his so called tribute to James Earl Jones: a photo of Darth Vader's helmet on fire. He even has to nerve to say "Rest in power," but does he know what that means? "Rest in power" is used to refer to those who have dedicated their lives to activism or those who have died due to oppression, or those who have been oppressed in some forum. Yet Brian's message shows the opposite of that. Darth Vader's helmet on fire. You know what Brian's really saying with that image? He's really saying "Burn in...," well, I won't complete that sentence, because I have way too much respect for James Earl Jones, a true icon in the Black community. Something Brian will never be. Especially being he's a race baiter.

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On October 2, 2024, I called out those actions in this video:

 

 

 

 

 

 

So on the following day, October 3, 2024, Brian released a Tiktok where he, once again, perpetuated this lie that he was being verbally attacked and that Miley "came at him," even showing the statement "It was a White woman," as part of his delusional attempt to accuse Miley of being racist. Seriously, he was still doing that. It's the most pathetically blatant act of race-baiting I've ever scene. He was told facts by Miley, and because he couldn't handle it, he claims "racism," when nothing like that happened. The man is a Jussie Smollett wannabe; claiming racism where there is none. Brian started this whole thing. He was the one who came at Miley, myself, and others who called him out, and the whole thing started with Brian again defending his decision to give his passcode to Carissa, saying "When you want your significant other to trust you, you give them your passcode." His ignorance to common sense blows my mind.

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Yeah, Brian is clearly delusional, and look at the messages he's posted about Carissa. Now, let's make one thing clear. Carissa is definitely evil for sure, but so is Brian. I'm wondering now if Brian is actually guilty of some of the things that Carissa accused him of committing. Something tells me he's controlled other women like this in the past, but he ended up meeting his match with Carissa. First off, here are the messages about Carissa. Regarding the screenshots, I had to have a friend of mine get the screenshots for me, because the battery on my phone died. Thank goodness for Messenger on my laptop!

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Brian is an absolutely delusional human being. As I said, Carissa is terrible in her own right, but Brian is definitely not innocent. The way he talks about Carissa makes it clear that he's bitter over the fact that he couldn't rule over her like I believe he's done to other women. And this is why he plays the race card and it's also why he's been attacking Miley. Both Carissa and Miley are red-haired White women, and this serves as a twisted reason as to why Brian's been going after Miley in the way he has, because in his mind, he sees Carissa when he verbally attacks Miley. He's acting like both women have targeted him because he's Black, when it's nothing like that. Now, let's get one thing straight. Black men have been on the receiving end of a massive amount of racism. I myself have been racially profiled, falsely accused of hideous things because of my race, and I've been hurled with racial slurs on social media. I seriously doubt that Brian has gone through racism in the level that I have. If he cared so much about standing up against racism, then why would he denigrate a Black icon like James Earl Jones in the way he did?

Brian's also acting like he's the only one who's been through something, and he claims that Miley doesn't know what she's talking about because she "isn't in a relationship right now.". Miley has been abused before. She's been on the receiving end of abuse in relationships. She knows what relationships shouldn't be. Miley has also been relentlessly bullied because of Joey Camp viciously slandering her and gaslighting others into believing the worst about her. Brian should know this. After all, he's been stalking Miley's social media for days on end.

I also get the vibe that Brian is implying that if Miley isn't in a relationship right now, her thoughts and opinions don't matter and are meaningless. What's wrong with being single? Brian treats that like it's some sort of cardinal sin if it is not him that's single.

On October 3, 2024, I posted this latest video calling out Brian's latest bullying attempt:

 

 

 

 

 

 

However, the story does not end there. On the evening of October 4, 2024, it was discovered that an account known as "chestly_puppy" had been posting insulting replies to one of my Instagram posts, as well as one of Miley's Instagram posts. Regarding the latter, Miley's video was hit with this disparaging remark:  "This is why I believe in abortion." That is a hideous comment to make. It sickens me that this character would make such a comment like that.

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Regarding the comment on my video, "chestly_puppy" asked, "Did you just crawl out of a dumpster?" Here's the kicker. The video that the character replied to? It was one of my IG posts calling out Brian. How convenient. Why one of my posts calling out Brian? It could have been any of my video posts, yet that was one was targeted. Hmmm.

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Again, that's the kicker, though. The verbal attack towards me was a reply to one of my IG posts calling out Brian. Also, it was both Miley (who sent the two screenshots to me) and myself who were attacked by this "chestly_puppy." Based on this, I absolutely suspect and believe that Brian is "chestly_puppy." I would not be surprised if that account is a backup of Brian's that he's using to further harass myself and Miley, because we rightfully called him out for his nonsense, and he can't handle the truth. Look at everything Brian's pulled. Look at this whole blog! The list of Brian's offenses is longer than a Canadian football field! Oh, and guess what I learned about Brian recently? He works at Door Dash. Why does that not surprise me? I've heard that Door Dash is shady as hell, and well, so is Brian Joel Kemp. It's a match made in the other place. Could that be why Lucifer moved out of Hell and into Los Angeles? It would explain that.

 

 

And recently, I noticed that Brian posted this message where he mentions Carissa's daughter. Take a look at this. This can be taken a lot of ways. I myself think this is Brian's obsession with Carissa and her daughter at play. This does look like it could be Brian making a desperate attempt to get back with Carissa by mentioning her daughter, or this could be Brian gaslighting and manipulating Carissa to the point where she does something desperate that results in more trouble for her. Or this could be positive. Maybe there really was a bond between Carissa's daughter and Brian. Maybe Brian was seen as a father figure for Carissa's daughter. Again, I have my suspicions, but I'll let the readers of this blog be the judge.

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And it's reached a point where Brian is looking for excuses to bring up Carissa. Just look at this post. Brian mentions almost losing his wallet, but also brings up Carissa, who he referred to as "she who shall not be named," putting a Tile in his wallet, and he's never come close to losing it since. Seriously? Brian lashes out at Carissa, and again, her diabolical actions give Brian a reason to be upset, but look what he's doing. I recognize this behavior. I do know a few people who have been abuse victims:  Miley, Mera, and Casey. They've all been abuse victims, and the last thing they do is mention each of their exes. The only time they would mention their exes is if they absolutely had to. Yet Brian, who has been somewhat victimized by Carissa, finds some reason to bring up Carissa at any time. And yes, Brian is a victim, but only in some capacity. But considering his attitude that he's shown, considering everything I've mentioned, that capacity is smaller than Connor McDavid's chances of ever winning the Stanley Cup with the Oilers, and that's pretty damn small.

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Brian Joel Kemp is a poor excuse of a human being. Again, Carissa Shaw? Definitely not a saint. Neither is Brian. The sh*t he's pulled and the sh*t he keeps pulling is disgustingly egregious. Imagine standing on a proverbial hill that you know is crumbling, and crumbling fast because everything you're doing is absolutely wrong, yet you still stand on it while insisting you're right. That's what Brian's doing right now. His delusion has reached a very dangerous level, and it makes me absolutely nervous.

 

 

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Brian Joel Kemp has abusive tendencies. He can't handle strong women. Nor can he handle being wrong. His apology to Dr McGibney is nothing more than him trying to save his own a**. I think Carissa Shaw shouldn't have lied to Dr McGibney. She shouldn't have ruined that one woman's identity. She should get that restrained order on Brian Kemp. Your blog proves that despite his claims of him being a victim, he stalks her activities on some level. He's obsessed with finding reasons to bring her up. Brian Kemp needs intense therapy. 

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Race baiters like Brian Kemp make it harder for other black folk to be heard and taken seriously. He is selfish; self serving. Miley isn't the one that's judgemental he is. He is judging white women as all being the same.

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2 hours ago, Caretaker said:

Race baiters like Brian Kemp make it harder for other black folk to be heard and taken seriously. He is selfish; self serving. Miley isn't the one that's judgemental he is. He is judging white women as all being the same.

His race baiting so creates even nore racism.

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None of this surprises me. I once knew Brian Kemp. He's emotionally and mentally abusive. He's very controlling. I think he did abuse Carissa. I think he probably gaslighted her into lying to Bullyville's James McGibney about her. He's that type of person. For my own safety, I can't say who I am. I'm sorry.

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Carissa is crazy and Brian Kemp is using that to his advantage. If I have to explain it, I will put my first through a wall.

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On 10/8/2024 at 12:04 AM, Alexa M said:

His race baiting so creates even nore racism.

He has a habit of that.

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On 10/7/2024 at 11:48 PM, Alexa M said:

Brian so does not respect women. 

He doesn't. While Carissa has alot of issues, I hope she gets that restraining order against Brian.

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5 hours ago, Albedo said:

Carissa is crazy and Brian Kemp is using that to his advantage. If I have to explain it, I will put my first through a wall.

No need to explain it. He's using her crazy to play the victim role more than he should.

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