Harassed for saying I was born a woman...And falsely portrayed as a transphobe (I'm not)!
This video is of me speaking up about an ordeal on TikTok today.
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This is the gist of it.
Since then a bit has happened. I am being FALSELY painted as transphobic by "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok " and "billynomates.1988 of TikTok". While neither has specifically said I am transphobic, they've both heavily implied it with their actions, the very way they twist words, and show only bits and pieces they can easily twist into looking like something else.
To add to it, this person named "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" has taken it upon themselves to harass me. Also to post Tiktoks painting themselves as some victim while painting me as some horrible anti-trans person. There's a list of TikTok's this person made about me. They attempted to make it seem as if blocking them made me anti trans.
I blocked "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" because of how crude they were towards me. Not all of which was visible.
There's 2 things I want to point out specifically right now.
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Essentially these folks are trying to portray me as "not a trans ally" because I blocked them. They got blocked for harassment and being a large part of why I kept receiving violent threats in private messages on TikTok.
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And there is "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" saying I am a transphobe without saying I am a transphobe. It's heavily implied with "They wernt ally's"
I've spent the last few hours blocking people that have been harassing me in private messages on TikTok. For some reason the option to change my private messages settings aren't showing up. Last time this happened, it resolved when I updated the app and waited. FINALLY I was able to change certain settings for better protection. Only those I follow back can message me now.
I have tried to explain myself to a few of these folks. Early on I've tried explaining I never said "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" said I was transphobic. But that was met with hostility in the form of massive amounts of "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok's" followers harassing me in private messages. I've been repeatedly harassed in comments to various videos of mine. The video above pretty much covers all I got to say.
I've tried explaining that I was referring to myself factually when I said I was a natural born woman. I've tried explaining when in close proximity of a transgender person I will say "cisgender". But not one of these people gave me a chance. Instead some of them chose to make Tiktoks attempting to make me out to be some ignorant piece of garbage as they tried to call it educating. They weren't trying to "educate" me in the least. If they were, they wouldn't have put so much effort into harassing me and having me harassed. What kind of people spend most of their day getting their social media followers to attack someone? Then playing victim and trying to convince 3 people privately that if I apologize, it will stop. Those who truly know me know that wen I am wrong, I will admit it and apologize. I will NEVER apologize just to get others to leave me alone or stop bullying me. To do so would be a great disrespect to myself. Them expecting me to apologize to get their attacks to stop is very demeaning.
If "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" and "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" were truly trying to educate me, they wouldn't have resorted having me harassed. All they proved today was how awful they are. I have nothing to apologize for. All I did was state that I was born a woman. "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" got a large number of their followers to harass me. "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" tried to get me harassed by trying to paint me as some PR person trying to help Patricia Silva and by trying to make it seem like me blocking them meant I am not a trans ally.
The last I'll say in this blog is this.
It doesn't matter what "dhbowzeryournonbinarydad of TikTok" and "billynomates.1988 of TikTok" think or say about me. I know who and what I am. I am a good person. One that will always speak in favor of trans rights. One that will always speak up for herself. One that will always speak up and have a friend's back.
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